The Modern Parenting Method
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The Modern Parenting Method is my training program that was carefully developed for parents who are ready to kick the screens struggle with their 6-14 year old child using a step-by-step proven system with real accountability and support.
As a child therapist who has seen the mental health impacts of the new digital age first hand, my mission is to help parents release the tech frustration, overwhelm and chaos going on in their home and confidently build their child's healthy screen habits using a relationship-first, holistic approach.
There is a method to becoming a more present, regulated and connected modern day family. And I can't wait to share it with you!
Good Fit
You are a parent of at least one child between the ages of 6 and 13
You understand the need for your child to develop healthy screen habits now for optimal mental health as they develop into young adults who will naturally crave more independence.
You are open to a positive parenting learning experience that will provide you strategies for way more than just managing screen time.
You are ready to invest in your family’s success with tools that work.
You recognize your role as the leader of your family but love having the support of other parents going through the same struggle.
Not So Good Fit
You plan on being a completely screen free family until your kids are fully grown, and balance does not interest you
You love your comfort zone and it would be hard for you to carve out time to implement what you learn
You’d rather keep to yourself instead of ask for help and DIY your way to success with books, podcasts, blogs and continuous trial and error
Your child requires psychiatric attention right now
I know, you’re a parent who’s had this whole screen struggle in the back of your mind for quite some time.
So be real with me for a minute
Imagine yourself 5 years from now. Will you be just getting through the day, nagging your kids to get off their screens, worried about the role that tech plays in their lives?
OR
Are you ready to become a more present, connected family and strengthen your parent-child relationship now and for the future?
The Journey
Drop any guilt attached to giving your kids screen time and start using screens as a tool
Understand your individual child’s brain and how you will prevent them from developing a screen dependence or kick one that’s already been formed
Dial in your mindset, shift your perspective and create a rock solid foundation of family values that brings your family more connection, presence and purpose
Learn how to set and hold boundaries, avoid any power struggles, tackle tech tantrums and create smooth transitions out of screen time with my Tech-nique Toolbox
Create your own “Screen Routine for Resilience” with your kids to support their nervous system and develop their emotional regulation
Become prepared in what to say and how to say it when your child sees inappropriate content like pornography online (which they will!)
Create your flexible family tech plan that is both easy to implement and stay consistent with
Get prepared for their teenage years with phones, social media safety, sleepovers and other sticky situations.
Q & A
What if my child has a therapist?
If your child sees a therapist, awesome! Coaching is different from therapy as it focuses on a situation rather than a diagnosis. And parent coaching is not just a great compliment to your child’s treatment, but a way to strengthen your parent-child relationship.
I don’t know if my child has a big enough problem with screens for us to need this program?
The problem in our society is that we dive in to clean up the aftermath, instead of equally prioritizing prevention. You’re probably here right now because this has become a stress or worry for you as the parent, which is worth addressing.
I don’t know if this program will apply to me with my child being young and this issue being so fresh? Maybe they will just mature out of it?
This program doesn’t just address screen dependence, but prioritizes prevention. I hope you never get to the point where it IS a huge problem. There is nothing else like this program on the market for parents of kids ages 6-13, which is exactly why I created it. The earlier you start developing their healthy screen habits, the less stress and worry for you down the road.
What if I don’t have the time? I’m a busy parent!
You will need to dedicate 3-4 hours per week over a 10 week period to be successful, but there is tons of flexibility with your busy schedule in mind. This program is for parents looking for long term results, not just a quick fix, which makes the time you put in so worth it.
What if I’m scared to invest?
I guarantee a full return on investment within the first 2 weeks of working with me.
Do you accept insurance?
No, unfortunately coaching is not covered by insurance. I do offer payment plans.
The Modern Parenting Method
Program
It’s a 10 week premier program of it’s kind including:
Weekly live coaching calls with laser coaching
6 month access to digital course training videos with step-by-step guidance
Support from a community of parents who are on the same journey as you
Coaching is simply solving a non-clinical problem. You know how to be a coach, trust me. I’ll show you the systems.
You are smart. This is awesome. I like you already. My program will help you monetize your coaching skills and package them in a way that attracts your ideal client as you step into the CEO role of your business.
It’s more common than you think. With my guidance and specific training on niching and hyper niching you’ll be able to spit out your new niche statement in no time. Oftentimes it’s even around your personal experiences. There are endless options in the coaching world.
If other people are doing it and making money, it’s marketable. If you are helping someone solve a serious problem in the area of health, relationships, confidence, business or money it’s even more marketable. If you can turn what you do into a problem to solution format with really strong messaging, it’s marketable.
You're going to alienate yourself if you don’t niche at all. Take your pick.
You don’t have to, I’ll teach you how to keep your business separate and protect your license.
No. I do not like extra fluff. I am a cut to the chase gal. An ICF certification would mean I would need to teach you active listening, privacy, reflection, and so on. You already know that and I guarantee you aren’t trying to spend hours logging and demonstrating mastery all for a certification. Didn’t think so.
Everyone is busy. All you need to do to be successful in this program is dedicate 5-7 hrs a week.
I get it. I have been burned by coaches before. This is why I provide a full return on investment guarantee when you work with me.
What is in it for me?
Forming your own healthy screen habits as a parent and partner
Understand the science behind why your child gets screen obsessed and how to curb it
Let go of guilt, overwhelm, frustration and worry about your kids and screens
Create your family tech plan for now and the future
Build your toolbox as a parent full of boundary setting, avoiding power struggles, reducing tantrums and behaviors, building their emotional regulation skills, and utilizing rewards and consequences that discipline and actually teach skills
Strengthen your parent-child relationship, build long-lasting trust, and grow their own internal filter to stay safe on socials
Bonus!
Learn how to implement a screen reset when one is needed, and integrate screens back using a method for long term results
It’s time to reconnect your family and thrive in our modern world!
It's time to trade chaos for confidence!
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